What is Love? How we know we
are truly “In Love”?
I’m not an expert on the
matter, but I’m looking for answers, for some time now with my one life
experiences and from observation of “everything” around me, and we can find everywhere,
on everyone, thousands of descriptions about this “profound theme”.
To me “Love” is more than a “feeling”,
is also a state of mind, soul and the way you “Love” defines also who you are as
a women/men and as a human being.
Love someone first of all
means (to me) that you deep respect, admire and accept all about her, with all characteristics,
values, principles, faiths, pass, dreams and aspirations.
It means you see that person
as “she” really is and not as you would like “she” be, you don’t try to change,
you just support, care all the time.
Love is also learn, share, be
available to receive and also “walk away” if need to.
“True Love” means happiness,
fullness, freedom, friendship, companionship, need to be based on “team work” and
requires communication, dedication and commitment.
Be with someone means that you
are ready to share and receive, that your expectations should be real, based on
what that person is prepare to share with you, not in your own “lyric
expectations”, a healthy relationship is the one that “add” positivity to your
life.
Many relationships fail
because people look for “someone” that could fill or fix their “emptiness”, putting
life on others hands, having insane expectations on the others, as he/ she is
some kind of “God” or “Mage”.
We have everything needed to “be happy” in ourselves,
find that True is the first and most important step to be able to love yourself
and then others.
We know that we are really “In
Love” when everything in your life is even more shine, makes more sense, when
she/ he is around,... when you want to be more, be better, willing to share the
best of yourself just for the joy of see your "partner in life" smile and happier.
